All about conflict

Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new collection on dealing with conflict from start to finish as part of the Gottman Relationship Coach.

The first program, “Dealing with Conflict” teaches the basics of communication in conflict. You will learn which of the problems your relationship faces are solvable, and which you may continue to encounter. If any of these perpetual problems have you stuck, the Gottmans can help you get “unstuck” and understand each other’s perspectives. “Dealing with Conflict” helps prepare you for the regular, inevitable moments of friction that are bound to arise in any relationship.

The second program, “What to Do After a Fight” teaches how to navigate more difficult arguments and the feelings that come along with them. If “Dealing with Conflict” makes regular communication “smooth sailing”, “What to Do After a Fight” helps you address rough waters to keep your relationship from capsizing. Often, more serious arguments arise because they touch on values and beliefs one or both of you hold dear. Explore what’s underneath the storm with the game-changing exercises contained in this program.

The Gottman Institute is now offering a bundle of these two programs with a special promotion - you can save $50 when you buy both programs for only $149.00!

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NOTE: If you already purchased “Dealing with Conflict” or “Aftermath of a Fight” individually and want to take advantage of this special offer, make sure you are logged in to your Gottman Connect account and the price difference will automatically be deducted from your purchase of the second program.

Gottman Relationship Coach: Dealing with Conflict


New to the Gottman Relationship Coach! In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional. In this program you will learn:

  • Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
  • How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
  • How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
  • How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
  • How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
  • How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
  • More about your own emotions.

Limited Time Offer! Special Introductory Price.
$149.00 $99.00

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Gottman Relationship Coach: What to Do After a Fight


So you just had a fight. Now what? The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “What to Do After a Fight” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “What to Do After a Fight” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument.

Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:

  • How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
  • What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
  • What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
  • How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
  • The importance of “repair attempts”, or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them.

Limited Time Offer! Special Introductory Price.
$169.00 $99.00

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Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: Buy both What to Do After a Fight and Dealing with Conflict and save an additional $50.