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Gottman Relationship Adviser
The world’s first complete online relationship tool

You can start working towards your relationship goals today with the Gottman Relationship Adviser. No matter what challenges or dreams are shared in your unique relationship, the adviser has proven solutions to help you get where you want. Enjoy the Adviser by yourself or with your partner for the same price.

After 50 years of studying thousands of relationships, we understand what you are going through.

Constant fighting and negativity

Drifting apart or boredom

Lack of intimacy and sex

Commitment issues

Infidelity and betrayal

Loss of trust

Money issues

Achieving relationship goals together

Getting to know your partner better

Creating sexual safety

Taking the next step

Having more fun together

Deeper connection

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We understand that taking the first step to improve your relationship can be overwhelming, that's why we've made it easy to get started with a personalized guided plan.

Step 1: Self-assessment

Complete the detailed, 100+ question questionnaire to examine five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.

Step 2: Results

Receive an overall relationship satisfaction score, measure your connection using proven Gottman principles, and discover your relationship’s unique strengths and areas for growth. Read detailed summaries and dive into comprehensive research-based insights for every aspect of your connection.

Step 3: Personalized Plan

Your results automatically generate a tailored, step-by-step program designed to help you improve your connection. Explore research-based exercises, videos, and techniques created by the experts. Start or stop your program at any time, and work through it at your own pace.

A Complete Approach to Relationship Wellness

Developed using proven assessment and therapy methods by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Gottman Relationship Adviser helps you heal and strengthen your connection.

You´ll get proven ways of improving relationship health, satisfaction and resilience. Let us help you find relationship joy, intimacy and connection with easy-to-do steps that really work.

Take the first step towards a healthier connection today! Get started now and see the results for yourself.

The first ever assessment + solution
Analyze your connection and receive a tailored relationship-building solution, just for you.
100+ question scientific self-assessment
Examine five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.
Measure relationship happiness
Generate an overall relationship satisfaction score and discover your unique strengths and weaknesses.
Personalized digital plan
Start a tailored step-by-step program to improve your connection. Explore research-based exercises, videos, and techniques created by the experts.
Take it alone or together
Invite your partner for more detailed results.
A complete relationship wellness tool
Powered by the renowned Gottman Method, proven to help millions of couples all over the world.

Sanchia R.

Thank you to The Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I needed to create this relationship. We are so grateful.

Madeleine M.

Really good, small, manageable tips to improve relationships.

Janice H.

Absolutely essential to relational health - for all involved.


Me and my hubbs of 33 years are living for the Gottman Institute in this beautiful season of life. It’s amazing how you never stop learning how to make your relationship blossom. I recommend it to everyone who hasn’t stopped learning!

Jeremy H.

I love Gottman’s scientific approach to relationships based on years of studies into relationship successes and failures.

Get Started In Three Simple Steps

Create your profile

Purchase the Adviser and quickly set up your profile on Gottman Connect. You’ll have the opportunity to invite your partner if you wish to.

Complete the self-assessment

Submit the detailed self-assessment individually using unique logins to ensure privacy. The self-assessment takes about 20 minutes to complete and you can take a break at any time.

View your personalized results

Using your self-assessment and satisfaction score results, the Relationship Adviser will develop an in-depth analysis of your relationship health using Gottman's nine key principles so you can understand areas where you and your partner excel and where you need improvement. The virtual Adviser then suggests tailored recommendations and resources proven to help you strengthen it.

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Address unique challenges in your relationship:

The Gottman Relationship Adviser is here to guide you on your journey to a stronger,
more fulfilling partnership. With our research-backed questionnaire and personalized plan,
you'll have the tools you need to transform your relationship.

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Have More Questions?

Looking for a therapist? Meet our network of trusted, Gottman-trained therapists on the Gottman Referral Network!