Gottman Relationship Adviser
A complete approach to relationship wellness.

Developed using proven assessment and therapy methods by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Gottman Relationship Adviser helps you heal and strengthen your connection.

A new tool for a renewed relationship

The NEW upgraded Gottman Relationship Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness.

After 40+ years of extensive research with thousands of couples, we’ve discovered the most important components of successful relationships. We’ve built these essential components into the world’s first relationship self-assessment + solution planning tool for couples.

Measure your relationship health with the research-based Gottman Assessment, analyze five key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, self-guided digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection—all on your schedule and from anywhere.

Step 1: Self-assessment

Complete the detailed, 100+ question questionnaire to examine five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.

Step 2: Results

Receive an overall relationship satisfaction score, measure your connection using proven Gottman principles, and discover your relationship’s unique strengths and areas for growth. Read detailed summaries and dive into comprehensive research-based insights for every aspect of your connection.

Step 3: Personalized Plan

Your results automatically generate a tailored, step-by-step program designed to help you improve your connection. Explore research-based exercises, videos, and techniques created by the experts. Start or stop your program at any time, and work through it at your own pace.

A Complete Approach to Relationship Wellness

Developed using proven assessment and therapy methods by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Gottman Relationship Adviser helps you heal and strengthen your connection.

Features
The first ever assessment + solution
Analyze your connection and receive a tailored relationship-building solution, just for you.
100+ question scientific self-assessment
Examine five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.
Measure relationship happiness
Generate an overall relationship satisfaction score and discover your unique strengths and weaknesses.
Personalized digital plan
Start a tailored step-by-step program to improve your connection. Explore research-based exercises, videos, and techniques created by the experts.
Take it alone or together
Invite your partner for more detailed results.
A complete relationship wellness tool
Powered by the renowned Gottman Method, proven to help millions of couples all over the world.

Sanchia R.

Thank you to The Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I needed to create this relationship. We are so grateful.

Madeleine M.

Really good, small, manageable tips to improve relationships.

Janice H.

Absolutely essential to relational health - for all involved.

B.G.

Me and my hubbs of 33 years are living for the Gottman Institute in this beautiful season of life. It’s amazing how you never stop learning how to make your relationship blossom. I recommend it to everyone who hasn’t stopped learning!

Jeremy H.

I love Gottman’s scientific approach to relationships based on years of studies into relationship successes and failures.

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