The Gottman Relationship Adviser

Ever wonder what’s really going on?

Tired of getting into fights and unsure what to do next? Or maybe you’re just looking to learn about and improve on your relationship?

The all-new Gottman Relationship Adviser, powered by the legendary, scientific Gottman Method, can help you finally understand what’s going on in your relationship - and get you the help you need.

This evidence-based relationship adviser takes under 20 minutes to complete and can give you deep insights into what’s happening in your relationship, taking you to the next level.

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Scientific self-assessment
measures five key relationship areas: friendship and intimacy, sex and passion, conflict management, shared meaning, and trust and commitment.
100+ research-based questions
designed to analyze your relationship’s unique strengths and weaknesses
Measure relationship happiness
with an overall relationship satisfaction score
Even more insights
understand where your relationship measures on every level
Take it alone or together
invite your partner for more detailed results
Personalized recommendations
immediately start improving your connection

A new tool for a renewed relationship

After doing extensive research for over four decades with thousands of couples, we’ve found that one of the most important components of a successful relationship is the quality of friendship between partners.

Taking the Relationship Adviser can help you get insight into your overall relationship health, your friendship and intimacy, your romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meanings, trust, comittment, and more.

Sanchia R.

Thank you to The Gottman Institute for providing the tools my partner and I needed to create this relationship. We are so grateful.

Madeleine M.
Gottman User, 2021

Really good, small, manageable tips to improve relationships.

Janice H.

Absolutely essential to relational health - for all involved.


Me and my hubbs of 33 years are living for the Gottman Institute in this beautiful season of life. It’s amazing how you never stop learning how to make your relationship blossom. I recommend it to everyone who hasn’t stopped learning!

Jeremy H.

I love Gottman’s scientific approach to relationships based on years of studies into relationship successes and failures.

Get Started In Three Simple Steps

Create your profile

Purchase the Adviser and quickly set up your profile on Gottman Connect. You’ll have the opportunity to invite your partner if you wish to.

Complete the self-assessment

Submit the detailed self-assessment individually using unique logins to ensure privacy. The self-assessment takes about 20 minutes to complete and you can take a break at any time.

View your personalized results

Using your self-assessment and satisfaction score results, the Relationship Adviser will develop an in-depth analysis of your relationship health using Gottman's nine key principles so you can understand areas where you and your partner excel and where you need improvement. The virtual Adviser then suggests tailored recommendations and resources proven to help you strengthen it.

Get Started for Only $39

Have More Questions?

Looking for a therapist? Meet our network of trusted, Gottman-trained therapists on the Gottman Referral Network!